My partner and I have tried several of the "cheapie" dildos and harnesses and none of them have been very good- the harness broke, the dildo was too hard, the dildo came off the harness after using it... the list goes on. We decided to get our first "expensive" dildo and harness after having already spent over $100 on several of the cheap ones.
The dildo we finally chose was the "Realistic Medium Bent." (Which the people at the store named "Ray Ray.")We chose this dildo based on the idea that when we normally have sex, I only ever use 2 fingers, and sometimes only one. The harness we bought was the Spare Parts harness. When we got the dildo and harness home we were eager to try them out. After washing them, we started "assembling" the "package." I needed a little help getting the harness on, but after wearing it, it was VERY comfortable. By far the most comfortable harness I've ever worn. When we used the dildo, my partner complained that it was a bit too small. Again, when we bought it, we were going on the fact that I only use 2 fingers and my partner is a little on the shallow side. She said that she would like for it to have more girth, but the length is good. Because it was small, however, we got to try a lot of positions (ie cowgirl) that we normally don't get to try. It's also small enough, I think, for anal play. She said it was very comfortable- right texture, hardness, etc. We really like the dildo, just wish it was a little bigger in girth. We will definitely continue using it though.
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